A nice man!

My definition of 'nice', hmmmm ok probably easier to start of with things that I don't want in a man. And these are things that I've experienced with men whom I have met here in Hong Kong.

• Physical abuse.
• After having a conversation where a monogamous relationship was established as being an aim for both sides, finding he had been sleeping with my best friend, neighbour and/or a woman he picked up in a bar is not a trait I find attractive in a man.
• Wanting to spend every Public holiday, Sunday and Saturday playing sport, some sport is fine, lots of sport is ok but every moment when not asleep, drinking or working is dull.
• Wanting to spend every single moment of time with each other when not asleep or working, I need my space too!
• Being dismissive of my chosen and cherished career.
• Never wanting to go out in public.
• Never wanting to stay home and chill.
• Being intimidated by my breasts, yes they are more than an A cup and no that doesn't mean they have to be juggled!
• Saying more than once a week that he is too tired for sex but that a BJ doesn't count.
• Not caring if I've got my FMB's and SR on.

I suspect I'll come back and add to this later!

What I would like would be to find someone who is kind, humorous, honorable* and of course on occasions even sexy. But most of all, single and interested in me.

*Honorable: That is kind of cheating because I think that covers both honest and trustworthy in a single word. But I still see it as slightly different. A man with honor does the right thing, even when it isn't the easiest thing.