Discombobulated: To be thrown into a state of confusion.

Sunday, December 05, 2004

Who's choice is this?

One of the reasons I don't do anything till now about getting fitter, I can use the 'excuse', well of course I'm single, men are shallow and that no one is prepared to look past the initial visual impression to see what else I have to offer.

But if I did get myself into better shape (ok so I'm never going to weigh 110 pounds like most of the asia ladies in this town) and no one STILL wanted to be with me, then that would be even worse, I'd be being rejected for my personality!
And that would be just fulfilling my mothers prophesy
So its easier to hide behind a few extra pounds and just give the stock answer when people ask why I am single.
Men are visual creatures and I just don't appeal.

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