I want someone to hold my hand.

After leaving a comment over at one of my favourite fathers site Random Pensées I dug out a book to re read. All I really need to know I learned in Kindergarten by Robert Fulghum.

I want to share just a little with you before I go on and read the rest.

ALL I REALLY NEED TO KNOW about how to live and what to do and how to be I learned in Kindergarten. Wisdom was not at the top of the graduate school mountain, but there in the sandpile. These are the things I learned.

• Share everything
• Play fair
• Don't hit people
• Put things back where you found them.
• Clean up your own mess.
• Don't take things that aren't yours.
• Wash your hands before you eat.
• Flush.
• Warm cookies and cold milk are good for you.
• Live a balanced life - learn some and think some and draw some and paint and sing and dance and play and work every day some.
• Take a nap every afternoon.
• When you go out into the world, watch out for traffic, hold hands and stick together.
• Wonder. Remember the little seed in the Styrofoam cup: The root go down and the plant goes up and nobody really knows how or why, but we are all like that.
• Goldfish and hamsters and white mice and even the little seed in the Styrofoam cup - they all die. So do we.
• And the remember the Dick and Jane books, and the first word you learned - the biggest word of all - LOOK.

Everything you need to know is in there somewhere. The Golden Rule and love and basic sanitation. Ecology and politics and equality and sane living.

Take any one of those items and extrapolate it into sophisticated adult terms and apply it to your family life or your work or your government or your world and it holds true and clear and firm. Think what a better world it would be if we all - the whole world - had cookies and milk at about three o'clock every afternoon and then lay down with our blankies for a nap. Or if all governments had a basic policy to always put things back where they found them and to clean up their own mess.

And it is still true, no matter how old you are - when you go out into the world, it is best to hold hands and stick together.

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He's right you know. And for me what's important is having someone to hold my hand out there in the world.